It disturbs that some men still can't respect a strong women. The guys that I am referring too are those that are demanding us women to express our emotions and feelings, or constantly showing men we care about them. A guy I was "talking" too told me I was like a dude because I had no emotion. Why do some men expect all women to go love crazy on them. I don't have time to constantly tell a guy how I feel . If you need to be reinforced so often then we don't need to be together. If we addressed the situation already then all we need to do is maintain our love by actions.
The signs of love speak more volumes then words for me because people can say anything and not mean anything. Going back to strong women I have realized these guys love weak women they can control. These guys build up confidence that were insecurities when they find girls that go crazy for them. I demand the dual participation; if you want me to show you affection and love then you must do the same at the same degree. I can't take the half ass type of relationships that these men give. Does anybody else share similar thoughts?
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