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Thursday, January 21 2010 @ 11:35 AM CST Contributed by: jazzmecia Views:: 255
I am talking to this guy for about 2 months and he's already in a relationship. He tells me that they are not really together she just come's over sometimes but her things are everywhere Im talkin flat iron in the bathroom, perfume in his room and a few clothing items here and there. I don't know if I should break it off but we already kinda took it to the next level... whats a young girl to do and to add the fact that he's 8 years older then me
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Kinda in a relatinoship with a guy whos already in a relationship
Authored by: Admin on
Friday, January 22 2010 @ 10:21 PM CST
I would say your swimming in dangerous waters. There is no way I would enter that house after seeing that stuff! I think I would have tell brotha man thanks for memory but I'm out.
Kinda in a relatinoship with a guy whos already in a relationship
Authored by: RedShoes on
Saturday, January 23 2010 @ 09:13 AM CST
Admin is right. First respect yourself, then re-read your blog. The answer is there. Don't allow yourself to be played for a fool. You will always be worth more than some loser guy who is acting the fool. Think about it then hold your head high. Ask yourself why you need him. Is he stronger than you are? He must be to have such a grip on you. Live strong.
Kinda in a relatinoship with a guy whos already in a relationship
Authored by: Me-Myself-and-I on
Sunday, January 24 2010 @ 11:29 PM CST
"Kinda" says it all. Even you know this is wrong. Don't be so needy. Stop being a willing partner in being taken advantage of. Even if he dumped the other woman for you, would it be long before he found another temptation?
Kinda in a relatinoship with a guy whos already in a relationship
Authored by: Rochelle Miller on
Saturday, January 30 2010 @ 09:13 AM CST
If this ain't a hot mess I don't know what is") ain't know way I'm going to be the other lady with or without the babies, he knows what time it is with the other sistah with his old self he didn't just start dating he's been dating for a hot minute and now look at him trying to date two sistahs at one time clownin sayin she just a friend, please! he knows what time it is with home girl, if he didn't why hasn't he introduced you to her if she's just a friend? and why would he allow her to have all her products at his house unless he's sexing a sistah up and she's freshin up after a night of sex") let you what if you really want to know if home girl is just a friend leave a pair of old dollar store ear rings in his house but don't let him see you leave them there because if you do he gone throw them in the trash so she won't know you been there but if you leave them where you know she'll see them I promise it's going to be on and poppin for him once she finds out he been dippin where he ought not be dippin. P.S. never leave a good of ear rings you may need them when you go on a for real date:)