Authored by: Admin on Sunday, March 29 2009 @ 02:44 PM CDT

Well, the way see it is if he had some things in there that you did not want to see, then maybe you should be caring more about yourself with regard to what you saw and how that made YOU feel. Granted, maybe you should not have looked through the phone, but you did and you saw and you need figure out how you want to act on that info with regard to YOU. His feelings really don't count in this decision if what you saw hurts YOU.

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Bernadette
Peace and prosperity to you!

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Authored by: RedShoes on Wednesday, April 15 2009 @ 12:23 AM CDT

I agree with Admin. The other side of the coin as I see it, is that it is a violation of another person's space to go through his wallet, her purse, and/or her cell phone. I sure would not want it happening to me and I don't think anyone should be subject to that sort of thing regardless. It's no different than someone who secretly rifles through your home.

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Authored by: CMMJT on Sunday, May 31 2009 @ 09:24 AM CDT

I GUESS I'VE ALWAYS BEEN ONE OF THOSE "FULL DISCLOSURE" TYPE OF PEOPLE... I FEEL THAT IF YOUR MAN, WOMAN, WHOEVER, HAS A PROBLEM WITH THEIR PARTNER GOING THROUGH THEIR PHONE, OR ANYTHING ELSE, THAT IS THE PROBLEM; NOT THE LOOKING. THERE SHOULD BE NO REASON YOU CANT FLIP THROUGH THEIR PHONE. WHAT IS THERE TO HIDE? AFTER U MEET SOMEONE AND U HAVE AN "OFFICIAL TITLE" I.E., U KNOW THEIR LAST NAME LOL, ARE AGREEABLY TOGETHER, MONOGAMOUS, ETC... ANYTHING SECRETIVE IS A HUGE RED FLAG IN MY MIND. BUT I GUESS EVERY1 HAS THEIR ONLY LEVEL OF PRIVACY AND ARE SLOWER TO SHARE CERTAIN THINGS WITH SOMEONE NEW....HOWEVER, UR POST DOESN'T SOUND LIKE THIS IS A BRAND NEW RELATIONSHIP, AND A CELL PHONE ISN'T A DIARY, THERE SHOULDN'T BE ANY DIRTY SECRETS ENCLOSED. THUS, THERE SHOULD BE NO PROBLEM WITH YOU LOOKING AT IT. ADDITIONALLY, IF THE REASON A CHICK IS LOOKING THROUGH DUDES PHONE IN THE FIRST PLACE, IS OUT OF JEALOUSLY OR MISTRUST, (NOT JUST BOREDOM, OR BECAUSE HIS PHONE HAS BETTER GAMES, AS IN MY CASE LOL) ITS ALREADY OVER! JUST BREAK UP AND MOVE ON. IF U DON'T TRUST HIM, AND HAVE GOOD REASON, YOU NEVER WILL; AND IF IT'S BECAUSE OF UNWARRANTED JEALOUS TENDENCIES, PEOPLE WITH ISSUES SUCH AS THIS SHOULD WORK ON THEMSELVES BEFORE ENTERING ANY RELATIONSHIP.

HOPE I'VE BEEN CONSTRUCTIVE! =) GOOK LUCK!

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Authored by: Oasis on Wednesday, October 21 2009 @ 11:09 AM CDT

Thank you so much CMMJT... you took the words right out of my mouth!

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