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I need advice from another woman that has been in my shoes. Or something similair to my situation that I am in. I am a 25 year old wife and a mother of three girls. I am not happy in my marriage but I have only been married for three years to a man that is nineyears older than me. I'm now learning that he is basically controlling me i didnt know that it was going to be this way until I got married. Then moved in with him for the first time . I just don't feel like my old happy self anymore.My fellow sisters I am in need of serious advice,words of wisdom ans encouragement.Please help me the CAGED BYRD!
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i'm confused
Authored by: Admin on
Monday, March 30 2009 @ 09:38 PM CDT
If he controls you, it is because you let him control you. Remember, a man can only do you what you let him do. You are older now and wiser now. If you want him to change, then you must start by changing yourself. If you are tired, then you are going to have to make a decision.