Okay....I am twenty seven years old with one daughter. I met my current boyfriend through a dating service. I didn't really expect much out of it and neither did he, we had good conversation over the phone and when we met, later that night, we didn't really hit it off that well.
The next time we met he took me out of town for the weekend and we had a pretty good time....for my birthday he did the same thing and we decided to make it official on my birthday, two months after we met....since then I have went on yet another vacation with him and moved in with him in a completely different part of the city....I don't work anymore, I stay at home and cook and clean and take care of him-he works twelve hours a day damn near six days a week as a financial director for Mazda. As far as my daughter goes, she hasn't met him yet because she is traveling the country this summer and when she comes back will be coming right back to living here with me. My man is the best he is everything that I could have ever dreamed of he takes great care of me financially and mentally. I wonder if I am being realistic...am I moving too fast...or am I looking a gift horse in the mouth...my mother says I better shut up and live the life that everyone else would want to live and my best friend is telling me that I should get a job otherwise he is going to think that he runs me....what do you think?
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