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 Thursday, July 29 2010 @ 10:17 AM CDT

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Age Differences

    
Wednesday, January 02 2008 @ 04:00 PM CST
Contributed by: qnbailey
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Black RelationshipsHey ladies! I am new to the site but I am glad I stumbled across it. Maybe someone will be able to offer a little advice about my situation.

I am dating a guy who is older than me. My friends and parents were cool with it at first because they didn't really know how much older he was. Now, that they know everyone is complaining. I just can't understand what the big problem is. We get along great. We love the same things (particularly church and music). I could see if he was abusive or rude to me, but he isn't. We love each other and it's not like we are trying to get married or have a lot of kids or anything like that. We just enjoy each other's company. Someone help me understand what the problem is please!
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Age Differences
Authored by: Admin on Thursday, January 03 2008 @ 02:46 PM CST

Welcome to the site! I will say the same thing as I did in a post before. Enjoy the moment. If you like him don't worry about the rest of the folks.

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Bernadette
Peace and prosperity to you!
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Age Differences
Authored by: thandi on Thursday, January 03 2008 @ 08:07 PM CST

decide or don't decide to feel what they want.
decide or don't decide to feel what you want.

can they decide to know what you feel? I don't think so!

can you decide to ignore what they feel. doesn't sound like it.

find someone else that will please them or hide him?

Let's face it we want a man so that our family and friends can go "yeaaaa"
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Age Differences
Authored by: Admin on Saturday, January 05 2008 @ 12:23 PM CST

Thandi you kind of sneaked in under the radar! Welcome the site!

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Bernadette
Peace and prosperity to you!
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Age Differences
Authored by: Rochelle Miller on Saturday, January 05 2008 @ 07:11 PM CST

Welcome to the spot ladies I say follow your heart and everything else will fall into place.

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big mama's daughter
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Age Differences
Authored by: Theblsd1 on Wednesday, January 09 2008 @ 03:53 PM CST

I feel you on this one. However, my situation is the reverse -- I'm in the older woman younger man situation. But I must agree with the replies, DO YOU! No one can feel what you feel when you're with this man. No one knows his heart. Enjoy yourself and live in the moment. When we stop concerning ourselves with what people think, feel, etc., you will enjoy yourself and the relationship so much more. Stop letting people thoughts and looks define your happiness.

FYI, I've decided I'm going to enjoy this man who loves me just the way that I am.
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