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I have seen far too many African American women emotionally wrecked because the love relationship they've invested so much of themselves into—ended. The reason being, it started out on all the wrong reasons. The contemporary single woman of today is armed with the wrong thoughts, actions and second-hand information on how to have and keep a love relationship that will hopefully blossom into a marriage. (Sadly, too many single black women are given baby showers and not enough bridal showers).
We are all made in the image of Jesus Christ. In the book of Genesis 1:26 it says " Then God said let us make man in our image, in our likeness." That means that we are the children of the Most High God. It also means that we should esteemed in this honor. Because we know where we come from it should be almost impossible to fail. Because we know who we belong to we should strive to be more like the Savior. He is the perfect example of greatness. Jesus Christ was more than willing to do the will of His Father. He was God in the flesh, and he was the son of man. Born to a mother of innocence Jesus had a perfect image. What can we do to be more like Jesus? read more (349 words)
Sunday, April 15 2012 @ 05:39 AM CDT Contributed by: Durban Bella Views:: 125
The 90 day rule..
Do girls really wait 90 days before they start being intimate with their partners?
I was looking for one of my files from my book box when Steve Harvey's book fell out and I remembered one of the very interesting topics when I once read it back in 2009. Steve Harvey wrote about the 90 day rule in his book "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man".
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Monday, March 12 2012 @ 10:42 AM CDT Contributed by: LoveInPink Views:: 129
Ok so I've decided to go natural because I hate getting perms because they smell bad and they leave my scalp so sore that I cry when I would wash it out. If anybody has any good tips on what I can use on my hair to grow it fast and also keep it healthy at the same time please comment....can u say super excited =D I've always loved big curly hair <3
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So, I am wondering how I have found myself blogging in an assumed, all female blog site. I ask myself “what do you I expect to gain?” The answer is very simple…A better understanding of what women think, how they act, what drives them, and what I can effectively teach my daughter to insure she grows to be a successful woman. read more (284 words)
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Monday, February 13 2012 @ 09:46 AM CST Contributed by: trey Views:: 143
Lately, I've become overly aware of little black girls between the ages of six to eleven years old. Little black girls with thick, short or long braids. Sometimes in their hair, they have a dozen rainbow colourful clips or multicolored beads, or tiny braids cane-rowed tightly into beautiful masterpieces. Their hair parted four million little ways with heavily greased scalps. They have thick beautiful lips, flat cute noses,and soulful big eyes. Their chocolate brown skin glistening, yet often they have forgotten to lotion ashy elbows or knees.
I am sitting here trying to decide when to get out. Well, if I am thinking on it , its time. Feelings of being incomplete are eating at me like a pup to his first bone. Who said I had to settle for sleeping in a separate room in my own home with someone who claims to love me. I am tired mentally and physically I have nothing more to give. This is it the last chance. I am the person who has to make sure I did it all. Give it a chance that is. Its all the same, we have grind to a holt. A relationship with no forward momentum is dead.
My advice to you ladies don't waste to much time hoping he will get it right. He want and you will be totally dsiappointed. So prayers and guidance is what I have prayed for. Girls pray for me.
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I was tired of livin' a life of lyin', tired of being someone i was not, felt like i was dyin'.
how long could i keep this mask on? Not for long, pain too strong. Bones shattered, my people scattered. children cryin', teens killin', sistas on the corner prostitutin' and whorin'.
Brothas locked up, eyes wide shut. Haven't we had enough? Our people walk blind in broad daylight.
What's gonna give? without YAH we can't live. Yahoshua wept, but we just slept. Broke the covenant and the Truth we left. These curses had me hurtin' had me questionin', had me searchin'.
Wondering why we are so hated. Wondering why pur heritage faded. Why we act like that? why we called black? I found out the mystery, the bible is our history, and this is what we lack. Oh how i had to go back! Back to the covenant, backto Abba(Father) YAH, through Yahoshua, the Messiyah,and( hebrew brotha). Now i am awakened, there is no mistaken, african americans, cubans, jamaicans and so on, are the Hebrew Israylite Nation. Treasured possession, so there aint no more messin', with gods of wood and stone, leave them demons alone!...and grab hold to your blessin' comin' back to YAH knowin'
who you are. His arm is not far, stop dwelling in the dark.....SHALOM
i had reccently cut off my hair on saturday thinking it was gonna be a miracle.
it turned out ot be i was true.
i had alot of garbage and glue it in.
it was left after three months.
i am happy to announce that i am very proud of myself for cutting it off.
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